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Sunday, August 24, 2014

Weekly Update, 8.24.2014

Happy Sunday!
      On Wednesday we will have been in China for 6 weeks already! Holy smokes, the time goes fast! Two weeks ago we moved into our spacious 3-bedroom apartment overlooking BOTH the Yalu River and the Dandong cityscape.  We love our new apartment as it sits right on the river in the "old district."  There are two main parts to Dandong, the "old district" and the "new district."  The old district houses the large hotels, the multicultural restaurants and shops, movie theaters, museums, historical sites, parks, and more.  The new district is mostly comprised of huge high-rises, our school (EBIS; Eagle Bridge International School), the Friendship Bridge, and the soon-to-be opened customs center.  The bridge that joins North Korea and Dandong will open shortly.  Dandong-ians are desperately hoping (and building infrastructure) in the hopes that North Korea at some point will open their border for commerce between the two countries.  The sheer number of high rise apartment complex's around town that are empty waiting for that moment is staggering.  

     In our almost six weeks here we've learned many new ways of living.  For example, you have to buy a water machine because you are not allowed to drink out of the facet.  In order to refill your (one) bottle with water you have to buy water tickets.  When your bottle is empty, you simply put one water ticket in the opening of the bottle and take it to the guard station.  The guards will then call the water man who will exchange your bottle with a new bottle.  Later that day you walk down to the station and pick up your water! Voila!!  
            
              In our time here we've also:
                    -Bought a scooter to zip around town and for transportation to and from the school.
                    -Paid for a year-long membership at the local gym for Nathan and I
                    -Bought a large toaster oven (they do not have ovens in China....I know right?!)
                    -Bought mattress pads for all of our beds.  Here they only use one bedspring on the beds so getting a mattress pad and/or a foam pad is absolutely necessary.
                    -Hired a woman to help clean our apartment.  After the first cleaning she asked for feedback and notes on how we would like our apartment cleaned.  Then after receiving the document she told our foreign ambassador that it was too much work (essentially, she didn't want to use cleaner when she cleaned; using toilet water to mop the floors is standard practice ).  Nathan and I have decided to use our cleaning budget and instead use it for massages.
                    -Learned how to use all the taxis, i.e. how much it is for each area of town and how to say each place in Mandarin (our reliance on our "cheat sheet" is becoming less and less).
                    -We've met our neighbors, who consist of a couple, their daughter, the wife's parents, and the husband's parents, all of whom are incredibly nice.
                    -Bought the kiddos kites and remote control cars to play with in our courtyard.

       Nathan and I started work this past Monday.  It was a week of hurry up and wait, not at all what I'm used to with DPS.  Working in China requires A LOT of patience and we are finding that often times what easily gets done in the states takes about 5 extra steps and 3 extra people do to things.  We are learning that if you can sit back, be patient, carry your book with you everywhere you go (I've read 4 books already during my time here), and relax then you will handle here just fine.  
       
     It was nice to start to create a new routine for our family but was somewhat challenging because we still don't have our curriculum and can't begin to plan.  What is nice is that the (brand new) staff bus picks us up from our apartment in the morning and drives us the 20 minutes it takes to get to school.  The bus will then take us back to our apartment in the afternoon.  Lunch is provided by the school for all the staff and students and man is it good!! I honestly have never had such good cafeteria food! They made this eggplant, potato dish the other day, hmmmmm.

      Last Thursday I was told that I am going to be the only foreign teacher who will teach in the elementary division.  I will be spending 3/4 of my time teaching 2nd graders and 1/4 of my time will be teaching Kindergartners.  They are sending me to Shanghai next week for an international elementary school training.  I will travel there by myself and will be joined by the Chinese Principal, Mrs. Catherine Wu during the last part of the training and we will then head back together.  I am very excited to travel to Shanghai and am very excited to attend my first international school training.  I am curious to see how it differs from my trainings in the states and what programs/curricula they use.

     EBIS, essentially has two schools, a Chinese school which is preschool - 8th grade and an International school which is 5th-12th grade (there is overlap in the junior high school).  Nathan, unfortunately still doesn't really know what he is doing next year.  We know that he'll be an ESL (they call is EFL here) teacher but are unsure what grade he will be teaching and how many blocks he'll have in a day.  We do know that he will have his own classroom though! The ESL coordinator just returned from the UK and will begin to schedule Nathan's classes.  There are 9 international teachers for about 20 international students.  I believe there are about 60 students total in the entire school.  We still don't have a lot of information about how the school, classes, and programs will work and won't really until the end of this week when everything is finally hammered out (school starts Monday September 1st).

     ....That is all for now.  We are meeting another investor of the school today (there are 5 total; all are wealthy Chinese businessmen).  A new development of his has opened in the new district and he is having a ribbon cutting ceremony complete with food, drinks, and a movie.  Nathan is off to meet his friend, a Canadian, to see if he can officially get on a soccer team here; another one of those things you would think would be easy but it is turning out to be very very difficult...

     Sending much love from China,


Y.

Friday, August 15, 2014

Home

The B5's have been living out of suitcases since the end of June ~ staying at some really great places along the way. After saying goodbye to our Dexter St.
Park Hill, Denver
(Park Hill will forever be in our hearts!) house the end of June we headed for Casa de Gilbert's pad, complete with two crazy boys (a good match for our mini-Banek's for sure).  Nathan and Amy helped with all the kiddos while Todd and I worked; I had one last week of teaching the Summer Academy through DPS.  The Gilbert's provided a wonderful space for us to relax, reconnect, and find refuge through friendship.  Amy and I have been friends since college and it was so great to be able to spend some uninterrupted time with her.
The Gilbert's

We left Amy's house early on a Saturday morning and headed to meet Judy and Allen for a day at the Renaissance Festival in Larkspur, Colorado.  That night we ended up at the great cabin in the hills, second home to the wonderful Matt and Karen Brooks.
The Brook's
Matt and Karen bought a beautiful cabin in the hills outside of Decker, CO.  They completely renovated the property into what now stands as a beautiful second home for their family.  The area around the cabin houses their motorhome, 4-wheelers, fire pit, and more.  Matt and Karen have created a beautiful family who holds their family above all else and are always in pursuit of living a happy, fun life.

We left the Brooks' cabin for our Southern Colorado staycation, spending 5 days camping in the Mesa Verde area.  Nathan, the kids, and I spent many days talking about our upcoming adventure and saying goodbye to Colorado.... for now.

 
The Troyer's
     We said goodbye to beautiful Southern Colorado and headed for the Troyer's home.  Erika, Andy, Luke, and Harper opened their beautiful new home to us.  Erika and Andy attended EQ's high school reunion so, with the addition of Luke, we had three days of playing around the house and having fun in the city.  Erika and Andy have created the greatest life together.  They've created a life full of fun, happiness, love, and respect for not only each other but everyone around them.  Their house is a safe haven and anyone who enters it feels immediately uplifted and loved.   

    On Sunday we left the Troyers and headed to the Banek's house.  They welcomed us in with open arms, helping us to pack, giving us a place to lay our weary heads, and filling our bellies with papas famous pancakes.  During those last days we shopped for the remaining necessary items and repacked our 20+ bags, making sure that they all fit within the dimension and weight restrictions.

    Now exactly one month after leaving the States we find ourselves moving into our new home in Dandong, China.  The school has provided us with a spacious, beautiful 3-bedroom 2-bathroom apartment on one of the top floors of an apartment complex.  Our apartment overlooks the Yalu River on one side and the sprawling city of Dandong on the other.  The girls are sharing a room again and seem to be adjusting well to sharing space again.  Luka, has a window seat in his bedroom that has quickly been overrun with battling legos.  Nathan has a meditation/workspace/art room/"daddy's quiet space place"/seating room that looks out on the Yalu River & North Korea.  I've also been blessed with a private bath tub (many who know me know that I LOVE taking baths!) and quiet space of my own.  We have a huge kitchen and living room and we have a secured courtyard outside so that the kiddos can burn some energy outside.  We feel so grateful that the school has provided us with such nice living quarters.  Please know that we have plenty of space for visitors!
Moon Island (Chinese; with construction); Shore line is North Korea

Yalu River (Broken bridge in the distance)

Living room looking out to the Yalu River

Living room/dining room looking towards Dandong




Looking into the kitchen

Dandong (Picture from our kitchen window)

Girls room



Luka's play space


Dandong at dusk


 

Saturday, August 9, 2014

Weekly Update, 8.9.2014

We moved into our permanent apartment two days ago.  It’s huge and spacious and will definitely house visitors (wink, wink).  Girls are sharing a room which seems to be okay so far.  Splitting the closet into two, Mya’s side and Lise’s side, was a chore and took a little bit of time navigating but we think we have everything sorted out.  We still don’t have internet but hopefully early next week we’ll have it so that we can have Skype dates.

  The school has been great.  They picked us up from the airport, put us up in a hotel for two days, helped move us into our temporary apartment, helped us get to Beijing, helped us buy household goods, helped us set-up water and cleaning services, and have driven us all over town to show us the sites and good places to shop/eat.  Nathan and I will help other foreign teachers in their arrival to Dandong.  We were basically the first foreign (new to China) teachers to come so they basically created all of their on-boarding systems in helping us.  Everything has been great and we imagine that our move would have been a lot more difficult if we didn't have their help.

  Kiddos are doing great.  We had a tough couple of days when we returned from Beijing ~ which, I think could be attributed to needing to get settled in somewhere.  Living out of suitcases definitely has its perks but so does having your clothing inside drawers and calling someplace “home.”  Luka has a nice big window seat and we've set-up all of his legos on that.  He’s already using it and playing on it just like he did with his old train table.  Girls have settled in and yesterday were able to pick out their own bedding, which was a huge plus for them.  Lise has a desk, which she loves and is already asking when we can go shopping for school supplies.  Mya, chose the huge bed and has a glass table that she is using as her desk.  Girls have already created a spreadsheet outlining chores so that they can begin to earn money.  Lise is saving for a saxophone and Mya is saving her money for unknown things at the moment.  

  Our apartment over looks the Yalu River on one side (we are less than 200 feet from North Korea) and the city of Dandong on the other.  It’s rather crazy that they consider Dandong to be a small, rural town with its sprawling town of more than a million people.  Every night on the riverwalk hundreds of women do Tai Chi while music plays from saxophones or big bands play traditional big band music. The neon lights line the streets and stay on until about 10pm when everything shuts down.  There is no curfew, per se, but most everything shuts down around then. North Korea, does seem to have a curfew as the city turns off most of the lights at 10pm.  Pretty crazy to look across the river and see complete darkness when you know there is a city there.

Nathan and I start work in a couple of weeks and the kiddos will start around the first of September. All, are pretty excited!

   
Mya & Peter at Cafe Bene

Infamous Broken Bridge

Street in Dandong

Park near our home.  Lise and random friend.

Friday, August 1, 2014

Forbidden City & Tiananmen Square- Plus Pictures

The formidable Forbidden City, also known as the Imperial Palace, is surrounded by security (both guards and screeners) and people...oh, the people. People are everywhere! The Forbidden city was opened to the public in 1949 and received its name because the commonfolk were not allowed to enter the place where only the Emperor's and their court was allowed to live. Construction began in the early 1400s and many remodeling projects have taken place over the last 700 years. It's a little hard to distinguish between the original and remodeled areas. Tiananmen Square is a unique place where both celebratory and horrific events have occurred. It is one of the most notorious meeting places in the world and has been the site of the announcement from Chairman Mao of the newly formed People's Republic of China in 1949, the announcement that Beijing won the bid for the 2008 Olympics, and the bloody clash between protestors and PLA soldiers.